The Queen's Strategy Session
1-on-1 Mentoring dengan Founder
Arnold Tumewu
Founder & Relationship Strategist | Former "Player" Turned Protector
"Mungkin kamu berharap founder ini psikolog pernikahan yang sempurna. Maaf, saya bukan orang itu."
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Women Mentored
8 Years
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From The Inside: Why You Should Trust Me
Halo, saya Arnold Tumewu.
Mungkin kamu berharap founder The GlowUp Project adalah psikolog pernikahan yang rumah tangganya sempurna atau motivator dengan sertifikat di dinding.
Maaf, saya bukan orang itu.
Saya adalah pria yang pernah gagal dalam pernikahan. Lebih parah lagi, saya pernah ada di fase 'womanizer'. Saya tahu rasanya memanipulasi, menebar janji manis, dan 'ghosting' wanita hanya untuk ego saya sendiri.
💔 "Saya tahu persis triknya, kebohongannya, dan manipulasinya karena SAYA DULU PELAKUNYA."
Tapi saya melihat kehancuran yang saya buat. Dan saya sadar: banyak wanita baik yang hancur karena buta akan permainan pria seperti saya dulu.
Saya membangun The GlowUp Project bukan untuk mengajari kamu jadi wanita suci.
Tapi untuk meminjamkan 'kacamata' saya.
Kacamata mantan buaya.
Supaya kamu bisa melihat Red Flag dari jarak 1 kilometer, sebelum hatimu patah.
✨ Anggap saja ini penebusan dosa saya.
- Arnold
Why Learn from a "Reformed Player"?
Sama seperti mantan hacker yang jadi ahli keamanan siber...
The Insider Advantage
Saya tahu isi kepala cowok player karena saya DULU adalah dia.
- • Cara dia manipulasi waktu
- • Alasan dia ghosting
- • Kenapa dia breadcrumb
- • Kapan dia serius vs main-main
Teori vs pengalaman langsung? Beda jauh.
The Protector Mindset
Dulu saya memanipulasi. Sekarang saya melindungi.
Saya tidak akan kasih nasihat 'sabar dan ikhlas' yang generik. Saya akan bongkar taktik yang dia pakai, dan kasih counter-strategy yang ampuh.
Think of me as your older brother who's seen it all.
Redemption Through Action
Saya gagal dalam pernikahan saya sendiri.
Tapi justru dari kegagalan itu, saya belajar: komunikasi yang sehat, red flags yang fatal, dan value yang tidak bisa dikompromikan.
Dari dosa menjadi pelajaran untuk kalian.
Is This Session For You?
This Session is BEST FOR:
- You're in a situationship sudoku (6+ bulan, no clarity)
- Major relationship decision: Should I marry him? Should I break up? Relocation for relationship?
- Dealing with infidelity or betrayal patterns
- Healing from toxic/narcissistic ex
- You keep attracting the same type (player, emotionally unavailable, etc)
- Career vs relationship dilemma (high-stakes choice)
- Complex family dynamics affecting love life
- "Does he actually love me or am I convenient?"
This Session is NOT FOR:
- "He left me on read for 6 hours" → Book The Sassy Bestie for this
- "How do I make him text back?" → Get The Little Pink Book
- General dating tips & tricks → Check our e-books
- Just curious about mentoring → Start with free quiz first
- You want someone to validate bad decisions → I'll give you truth, not comfort
- You're not ready to hear hard truths → I don't sugarcoat
"If you need tough love from someone who's been on BOTH sides (the player AND the victim of his own game), keep reading."
Let's See If We're a Match
This helps me prepare for YOUR specific situation and ensures I can genuinely help you.
(100% confidential, reviewed only by Arnold)
What You Get in Your Strategy Session
This isn't just a chat. It's a transformation roadmap.
90-Minute Deep Dive (or 120-min Extended)
Full, uninterrupted attention. Zero distractions.
We'll dissect:
- His behavior patterns
- Your triggers & blind spots
- Communication breakdowns
- The REAL question behind your question
- Action steps for next 30 days
This isn't surface-level. We go deep.
Personalized Action Plan
After our session, you'll receive:
- 📋Situation Analysis Document → What's happening and WHY
- 🎯Strategic Action Plan → Step 1, 2, 3... with timelines
- 🚩Red Flag Checklist (customized to your situation)
- 💬Communication Scripts → What to say, how to say it, when to say it
[Delivered within 48 hours post-session]
Session Recording (Optional)
Sometimes the breakthrough moment hits you AFTER the call.
Request recording and you can:
- Rewatch when you need clarity
- Catch details you missed
- Share with therapist (if you have one)
[Your recording, your control] We don't keep copies unless you want follow-up reference.
2-Week Email Support (4-Week for Extended)
Post-session questions? Updates? Need clarity?
Email me directly for:
- Clarifications on action plan
- "He did X, now what?" scenarios
- Accountability check-ins
- Template tweaks
[Standard: 2 weeks | Extended: 1 month] Plus Extended package includes 1 free 30-min follow-up call.
Investment Packages
Choose based on complexity & support level you need
Standard Session
Rp 1.500.000
What's Included:
- 90-minute video call via Google Meet
- Personalized action plan document
- Red flag checklist (customized)
- Communication script templates
- Optional session recording
- 2-week email support
Best For:
"Single, specific situation that needs expert breakdown"
• "Should I stay or leave this situationship?"
• "Is he serious or wasting my time?"
Extended Session
Rp 2.500.000
Everything in Standard, PLUS:
- 120-minute deep dive (extra 30 mins)
- 1-month text support (WhatsApp)
- 1 free 30-min follow-up call
- Priority rescheduling (up to 48h before)
- Resource library access
Best For:
"Complex situation needing ongoing support & strategy adjustments"
• "Healing from narcissistic ex + learning new patterns"
• "Multiple red flags + trauma from past"
VIP Intensive
Rp 4.000.000
What's Included:
- 3 sessions over 60 days (90 min each)
- Unlimited text support between sessions
- Weekly check-in calls (15 min)
- Dating profile review (if applicable)
- Priority 24h response time
- All recordings + transcripts
- Lifetime resource access
Best For:
"Complete relationship pattern overhaul & ongoing accountability"
• "I keep attracting toxic men - break the cycle"
• "High-stakes situation with multiple variables"
💳 Secure payment via Payment Gateway
💯 50% refund if not valuable (requested within 48h post-session)
🔒 All sessions strictly confidential
What Makes My Approach Different
What I DON'T Do:
- Give generic advice ("be patient, pray")
- Validate your excuses
- Tell you what you want to hear
- Use textbook psychology jargon
- Pretend I have all answers
- Judge your choices
What I DO:
- Call out BS (lovingly but firmly)
- Decode his behavior through male psychology
- Give you counter-strategies that actually work
- Help you see blind spots you can't see alone
- Empower you to make YOUR best decision
- Treat you like my little sister who I'm protecting
"I'm not here to be your cheerleader or your therapist. I'm here to be the older brother who's seen the game from the inside, and will give you the playbook so you don't get played."
- Arnold Tumewu
Real Transformations
From women who took the session and leveled up
Arnold literally said 'He's breadcrumbing you. Cut him off.' I was MAD at first because I wanted validation. But 3 weeks later? I met someone who actually values me. Worth every single rupiah.
Dina, 28 - Jakarta
Standard SessionI was about to marry the wrong person. Arnold didn't tell me what to do, but he asked questions that made me SEE the red flags I was ignoring. Dodged a bullet. Thank you for saving my life.
Sarah, 32 - Bandung
Extended SessionAfter 2 divorces, I thought I was broken. Arnold helped me see it wasn't me being broken—it was me having blind spots. 3-month VIP package changed my entire pattern. Now in healthiest relationship ever.
Mila, 35 - Surabaya
VIP IntensiveWhat I appreciated most: Arnold didn't sugarcoat. He said 'You're choosing unavailable men because you're scared of intimacy too.' That hit HARD. But he was right. Game changer.
Anonymous, 29 - Bali
Standard Session⚠️ Important Disclaimers
This is MENTORING, not licensed therapy
If you're dealing with clinical depression, PTSD, or suicidal thoughts, please seek licensed mental health professional first. I can work alongside your therapist.
I will be HONEST, sometimes uncomfortably so
If you want someone to just agree with you, this isn't for you. I'll tell you what you NEED to hear, not what you WANT to hear.
I can't make decisions FOR you
I'll give you all the tools, perspectives, and strategies. But the final decision is yours. I empower, not dictate.
Payment is NON-REFUNDABLE after session starts
(Unless there's a quality/technical issue on my end) 50% refund available if requested within 48h post-session and you genuinely felt it wasn't valuable.
Respect boundaries
Session time is sacred. No calls outside booked hours. Text support has 24-48h response time (not instant).
Frequently Asked Questions
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Stop asking friends who'll just validate you. Get strategy from someone who's played the game and learned the hard way.
"I'm not perfect. But I'm honest. And I genuinely want to help you avoid the pain I caused (and felt)."
- Arnold
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